Poured one out for my homie last night.  
(I might add the waitress was NOT happy about this.)

The view from my hotel room in Maryland where I woke up this morning, vs. my view here in Florida this afternoon.  Was working on a movie when I got the news Monday… and again on Tuesday.  Wednesday flew across country and gave a speech… only to be snowed in.  It was actually nice– I needed a day in my jimmies, without having to keep it together and “be on” in public.  But now that’s over, and it’s time to meet the masses, apparently.  Yikes!

#TBT to last Sunday before my world got turned upside down.  I got a text at 10am saying I couldn’t wear the dress I’d picked out for the Oscars, because Lady Gaga might need it for an after-party (nevermind that we’re not the same size).  So @Tafreshi_Fashion @Pushandcompany @Wilfordlenov @HoswayMorbakAli and I improvised.  NOW I understand she’s starring in AHS: HOTELL???  (Did I mention I’d been snowed in a hotel– total horror story– the last 2 days?)  I DO BELIEVE THESE WORLDS ARE ALL CONNECTED!!!  I just hope to have the chance to tell her how she flubbed me up on Sunday! 😉  Sadly, this story now seems so silly and insignificant. 🙁


I needed 200 hugs last night, and I got them!  Salisbury University (Maryland) came out in droves yesterday to hear me speak.  Up till then, I hadn’t gone more than an hour and a half without bursting into tears– but somehow, my 2 hour talk went great!

Hold me close, Tiny Dancer…

Man, even the water fountains in this hotel make me sad.

Ben Woolf, you just made my makeup artist’s job really effing difficult.


Ben Woolf touched so many hearts, even toddlers’.  Please give to/share the following link for his memorial fundraiser:  http://gofundme.com/benwoolf

I always grabbed Ben Woolf’s hand when crossing the street (as evidenced at the end of this video).  I know he was a 34 year old man– I couldn’t help it– I just wanted to protect him.  I’m crushed that I couldn’t.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W1mgjdB86FY&feature=youtu.be